I’ve found myself a mentor

Posted: April 26, 2011 in Uncategorized

There are three pieces of advice which I continually hear being given within the seduction community to people who want to get good at game:

  1.  Go out a lot and open lots of sets
  2. Learn from people who are better than you
  3. Never give up

Despite taking multiple long breaks from game (mainly due to being in relationships) I have hit point 3 pretty well. 14 months in and I’m yet to quit. Point 1 I sort of hit. I go out often, but the seemingly unending AA is stopping be opening lots of sets. 14 months in and I’ve probably only opened 200, when I should have opened more like a thousand in that time. Still, I’m working on it.

This leaves point 2.

Learning a skill from someone who already posses the skill can massively speed up your progress, so when a respected member of a major London based seduction forum offered people free mentoring I jumped at the chance.

The deal my mentor has offered me is this. He’s not in the UK at the moment, so we will have 60 minute chats most weekend via Skype. I must work on my general social skills as well as just getting laid. His aim is to turn me into a well rounded, sociable man who gets laid, rather than a pick up artist. All this sounded good to me so we have already had our first few Skype sessions. I will keep you updated on where this leads.

I still want to sarge with more experienced guys. I find mimicking what I see them do to be invaluable. Reading all the PUA material in the world isn’t as good as seeing a skilled guy in action. Just from hanging round with an intermediate guy I have seen by game come on significantly. I think the only way to find someone good is to keep meeting wings, wing well for them (just being able to hold a conversation, occupy the obstacle and not try and steal the target puts me ahead of 90% of wings out there… sad but true) and hopefully the good guys I meet will want to go out with me more regularly. I just have to remember to be more positive (I’ve started to realise I have the annoying habit of whinging to wings about how my game sucks, like a little bitch), and open more often when out and there’s no reason I can’t find some more experienced wings to leech off learn from.


Stats since 1st April:
14 approaches
2 number closes
1 kiss closes
1 f closes

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