Approach Monkey

Posted: May 2, 2011 in Uncategorized

I’ve bitched a lot about approach anxiety on this blog. Brace yourselves because I’m about to do it again.

I used to have 4 major problems when it came to pulling:

1. Approach anxiety
2. Prematurely ejecting from sets
3. Having nothing to say in set
4. Fear of escalating / closing

I’ve pretty much taken care of numbers 2 – 4, but consistently approaching a decent number of sets still eludes me. Not approaching regularly means I can’t practise game regularly. I know if I can approach 100 sets a month (I go out enough to do this) it won’t be long before I’m getting laid regularly.

Enough bitching and whining. It’s time to take right action, as Tyler Durden would say. I’ve decided to kick things up a notch by taking a 1 on 1 daygame session with a paid coach.

I’ve trawled through the commercial section of the LSS and found a guy who meets my criteria: is cheap and has positive reviews when it comes to busting people’s AA. We’re just texting to schedule a date now. I’ll keep you all updated.

Stats since 1st May:
1 approaches
0 number closes
0 kiss closes
0 f closes


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