100 sets of challenge already in jeopardy

Posted: July 1, 2011 in Uncategorized

100 sets of challenge already in jeopardy aka how not to improve your life, learn game and be the best man you can be.

I was looking forward to this month with optimism.  In the past couple of months I have seen some solid improvements in my interactions with women. I have made some progress on improving my bad habits. I realized that if I just increased the number of women I spoke to in a month, then July 2011 could be epic. The 100 sets of challenge was born, and I was honestly looking forward to demolishing it.

Then last night I fucked up quite badly, and have now put all this in jeopardy. I was doing some street game in central London last night, and myself and a wing were just getting ready to go into a bar. Then he suggested we visit the strip club. I check my wallet. Just enough for 1 beer and one lapdance. Should be fine. In out in about 30 minutes.

Four hours later I stumble out of the club, wasted. And this is on a work night. As always, when sober and not to horny I naively underestimate how much of a bad combination scantily clad hot women, alcohol and an in venue cash machine is for me. I don’t we need to discuss the exact amount of money I spent in the club. All I’ll say, that as a percentage of my monthly net pay, it made it into double figures. In short I blew most of the cash I’d use on taking girls out on day2s and on drinks when out sarging in one night. This is why the 100 sets of challenge is at risk. If I’m struggling to go out, I can’t sarge. It’s also hard to open girls when you know you can’t afford to take them on a day2.

The only upside is that if you know how to pick the right girl this is key) in a strip club and you’re spending that much money, the night will end happily for you. I don’t think I need to go into details here, but thank you Cherry. Or Rose, or whatever your blatantly-made-up-stripper-name was.

This was also the same strip club I met the stripper I dated in. She was working and she approached me:

Her: Why you no call or text me baby

Me: I did

Her: No

Me: Yes

Her: Show me… Ahh I thought those texts were from someone else. I didn’t save your number

Me: You should have saved it then

Her: Are you upset with me

Me: No, It’s not that I’m angry. I just don’t care

Her: We can go out again sometime. Text me

Me: We didn’t get on

Her: It was just because the date was rushed

Me: The date was fucking awful

Her: It was just rushed. Text me. I have 2 weeks here before I go back to Italy. We can have fun. Text me.

Me: Maybe

I wasn’t going to text her, but I have remembered how nice her ass is. But on the other hand she called me a little boy on our last date, and was a bit bitchy. Self respect vs the possibility of fucking a stripper. Sounds like an exercise in mental fortitude for me. I’m taking bets on whether I text her or not. I need to make some extra cash this month, you see.

Action plan: somehow, someway, find a bit of cash and push on with the 100 sets, starting tonight.

Stats since 1st July:
0 approaches
0 number closes
0 kiss close
0 f closes

  1. Hey man what’s up! I just found your blog from puavault’s twitter feed. I’ve read some post and I’m putting you on my reader. I read your bio. I started out hitting the internet and then of course bought The Game. I ended up reading another e-book by some NYC dating coaches that really put me on the road to success with women. In my own vernacular: I’ve had 1 home run, a triple, a double, and a single since taking the reigns of my dating life in May. Pretty much grade school meanings behind those baseball references

    Keep up the energy though, whatever works for you. I fall for girls as we progress together and then when the flame fades I resent myself. Just a shortcoming I’m working on. Today though, I was a bit pissy about a flake, and then a date with a hot girl from down the way in the mall I work at fell into my lap.

    I’m wondering, since you and I share the same goals in a way, how do you prepare for going out? Day and night? My day game is slim but my night game has been nothing but solid at securing me day 2s.

  2. As far as texting her. Fuck it man. Live without expectations. It’s not about the end result, it’s about the ride. Don’t let the situation bother, just be strong right through it regardless of outcome.

  3. […] just happened again, this time with the stripper I had a day2 with, who I’ve mentioned here a few times. I don’t think I ever mentioned that she lives near me. Well guess who I saw when I popped […]

  4. […] I didn’t push myself as hard as I should to open more sets. The second reason is running into financial difficulty (ahem) means that I only went out for the first 17 days or so of the […]

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