My day game ticking clock

Posted: August 1, 2011 in Uncategorized
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I have a problem that’s effecting my day game. I’ll run after a girl. Stop her. Open her. Hook her. It’s then that it happens. The clock starts ticking.

In bar game, I feel no rush. It’s like I’ve got all the time in the world to chat to the girl. In the street, it’s different. Since the girl was going somewhere when I stopped her, I feel like there’s a strict time constraint on the set. 3 – 5 minutes at the most (talk about arbitrary).

If I’m to get good comfort with the girl, and get her to open up and invest with me, I need a little more time. Closer to 10 minutes. In addition to this, I think the ticking clock comes across in my vibe. It makes me feel uneasy, which in turn will make the girl feel uncomfortable.

Not sure how to get around this one. I think doing more sets will help. I’m still not completely comfortable in my own skin doing day game yet. I also think better conversation skills will help, as I’ll be able to chill out and relax into the conversation better.

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Stats since 1st August:
0 approaches
0 number closes
0 kiss closes
0 f closes

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Comments
  1. Wozzle says:

    Why not use that time limit to appear busy, in demand and interesting? Talk, get number promptly and leave because you’re busy. Could be an intriguing image.

    • betatopua says:

      This is what I do when I want to bring the set to an end and close. I tell her I have to meet a friend, need to rush, and take her number.

      I’d like to have sets last longer and get more rapport and more investment.

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