Six Weeks

Posted: November 22, 2012 in Uncategorized

Six weeks. Over the past couple of years I’ve realised that, almost without fail, this is the amount of time it takes me to get bored of a girl I initially like.

It’s happened most recently with the Ukrainian girl I’ve been seeing for… just over six weeks. It got to the point last time I saw her that at one point I was just thinking, “Suppose we should have sex. Meh”. This is in stark contrast to a girl (or should I say lady, she’s older than me) that I’ve been on a couple of dates with (met her from cold approach). I haven’t fucked her yet and on our last date I had a hard on nearly the whole time, despite nothing to sexual going on.

I’ve come to realise I only like sex a little. What I like a lot is sexual variety. I think this is true of many guys, but most guys still settle down because they find it so hard to get a girl, that when they finally do, they want to keep her. I on the other hand am closing in on my 10th lay of the year with this new girl. Not spectacular by PUA standards, but it means that sex does come easily enough that I don’t feel the need to settle down with the first girl that will have me, leaving me free to be driven by my lust for sexual variety.

Given that even mediocre girls seem to have many options, I can see why girls often seem so picky about who they date.

The year’s drawing to a close now. It’s cold outside and the clubs aren’t that busy. I won’t be going out more than a few times between now and the new year, so there’s not that much sarging to be done. The Ukrainian can sense I’m losing interest. Girls with high self esteem seem to walk away when they sense this is happening. They won’t put up with a guy who’s bored with them. That means this one may well be over. I’d say the other girl is 65% certain for the fclose. I don’t have any other targets lined up. I got a bj on a first date from a girl I met on POF at the beginning of the month. Thought that’s worth mentioning here. Not worthy of a whole post, I decided not to see her again.

At the moment I’m looking to the new year. I’m starting to think about my objectives for 2013, and I’ll be posting them up here soon. I think I’ve said it before, but I think late 2014 / early 2015 will be my time, where I really hit my peak with women. A lot of different things should finally come together then. For that to happen though, there’s going to have to be a lot of hard work put in and fears overcome next year.

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Comments
  1. MikeG says:

    I’ve been thinking a lot about my objectives as well coming into the new year. The same reoccurring theme keeps coming back….no matter how many girls I fuck my game will suffer without getting an awesome(fulfilling)life outside of game. I’ve touched on this before but it’s something I seriously need to handle. I would suspect its the single biggest problem aspirinng PUAs have since most in the scene are natural introverts.

    It’s an unbalanced approach. Kind of like working out without handling your diet. Sure you can get results in working out alone but you’ll always suffer without getting a serious handle on both areas.

  2. Jim Bacon says:

    Yes Mike G is right. I remember reading a good post on this subject a few years ago by Tyler Durden (of all people) about nerdy guys wanting to stay in their nerd cave room, learn some tricks, then go out and use said tricks to pull a hot girl back to their room. All without having or being near the center of any kind of social group/scene. When a lot of girls will want to make you wait for sex not for some arbitrary reason, but because they want a little time to gain enough information on what your social standing is (a.k.a. are you a ‘cool guy’?).

    Although I’d be careful not to confuse an awesome fulfilling life with actually being a social leader in a social scene. Usually the first does include the second as a side result. But if your goal is to get on a variety of girls, and you are not doing this already, then you have to be fairly ruthless and efficient in picking your fights.

  3. betatopua says:

    The problem being that I don’t enjoy socialising that much…

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