Posts Tagged ‘beta’

Total beta

Posted: February 12, 2012 in Uncategorized
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Overhead this whilst sarging in a club. It was a man talking to a girl he’d approached. The girl seemed to be into him up to this point…

Come and see me on Valentine’s day. Don’t worry. I’ll pay for everything. I own four companies, it’s fine. Really. Please come and see me. I’ve been alone for the past two Valentine’s days. I thought I was going to marry the girl who I was with before that, but she broke my heart. I get very emotional when I’m alone on Valentine’s day. I even cried the last two Valentine’s days when I was alone. I’m not joking. I can even come and see you on Valentine’s day…

No, I’m not making this up. The girl got increasingly more uncomfortable as he went on. She went from being into him, to looking like she wanted to get out of there, quickly. I has seen this girl earlier in the night and wanted to approach her, but didn’t think the situation was quite right. I’ve decided if this is what the level of male competition is like, I don’t care if the situation isn’t quite right, I’m making my move.

Good little beta boy

Posted: June 8, 2011 in Uncategorized
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Alpha’s regularly fuck the best women, beta’s don’t. If alpha is just a state of mind, then so is beta. I think few things put the average man in a beta state of mind more than working in the modern office.

If you work in an office, and you aren’t near the top of your company’s hierarchy then you will spend most of your days being beta. Deadlines. Bosses telling you what to do. Showing no lust or (non passive) aggression. Sitting still at a desk or day. All these things push you info a beta state of mind.

When you then spend around 40% of your waking hours doing this, you are spending 40% of your waking hours being a beta. You have a lot of work to do out side of the office to stop the beta office drone being who you are.

Some people, Krauser for example, take long extended holidays / sabbaticals off work to get better at pickup. These people often get very good at game very quickly. I always assumed this was because their time of allowed them to open huge numbers of sets each and every week. Although I’m sure that experience in set helps, I actually think the main reason they get good so quickly is that they can live as an alpha 24/7. They are answerable to no one but themselves. When you aren’t forced into your place in an unnatural office hierarchy every day, you are quite literally free to define for yourself what level of the social hierarchy you occupy. You are so much more free to take control of your own reality.

I was thinking about this when I read a recent post on Jambone’s blog. He see’s his office worker persona as a mask. His Clarke Kent. His true persona, his superman, is a pickup artist. This allows him to pick up a beautiful women in his lunch break at work. In contrast to this I see my true self as the office drone, with the pickup artist persona being a mask I put on at the weekend and on the odd weeknight. This is why, despite there being many beautiful women working in other offices near mine I’m yet to approach any of them. How can I? I’m just a dull office worker. Yet if I was out on Oxford Street on a Saturday afternoon I’d go direct on any of them.

I don’t think I’ll ever be truly great at pickup, scoring with the 8s, 9s and 10s until my dominant persona is the pickup artist. I’m not entirely sure how to do this, but I think spending as much time as the pickup artist is the key. At the moment I’m spending too much time in the office to do this. As soon as my workload becomes more manageable I’m going to spend much of my free time sarging.

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Stats since 1st June:
2 approaches
1 number close
1 kiss close
0 f closes